Families across the globe are adapting to the changes in our daily life as a result of the COVID-19 pandemic. Here are 8 simple tips for helping children cope with changes during this time.
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I’ve put together some helpful tips for helping children cope with changes, especially resulting from COVID-19. They are basic and simple and I know we can all work together to get your child and you through this.
8 TIPS FOR HELPING CHILDREN COPE WITH CHANGES
Let’s start out, just like on every flight you’ve taken, put your air mask on first parents and then here’s how we put on our child’s to help them cope with all of the changes in their world right now.
These simple tips will help you establish a safe zone for your child to cope.
STAY IN A ROUTINE
Children are used to having a routine during the school week. Try to stick with a daily schedule, but don’t be too hard on yourself if life intervenes.
Even when children are not going to school, they still need a regular bedtime. Simple things like changing into a clean set of clothes help
give the day more purpose.
READ BOOKS ALOUD TO YOUR CHILDREN
Even older children, who read well independently, enjoy it when someone reads aloud to them.
GET SOME EXERCISE AND SPEND TIME OUTSIDE
Whether you use an exercise video or go for a bike ride, exercise and spending time outside reduce anxiety and improve focus and mood.
SPEND TIME TOGETHER AS A FAMILY
Play a board game. Learn the lyrics to a song and sing together. Dance. Build with Legos. Look at family photos. Bake a cake.
ASSIGN YOUR CHILDREN SOME CHORES
Assign smaller jobs (setting and clearing the table) to small kids and bigger jobs (cleaning the bathroom, washing the dishes) to big kids. Doing chores makes children feel like they are contributing to the well-being of the family.
Teach children everyday actions to reduce the spread of germs.
MAKE TIME TO PLAY
Play is essential to your child’s development, especially during these times. It contributes to the cognitive, physical, social, and emotional well-being of your child.
There are various types of play for kids to explore to build their healthy social and emotional development.
BE KIND TO EACH OTHER AND YOURSELF
Talk to your children about how they are feeling. If they are hovering around while you are doing something like cooking or cleaning or doing work, it may be their way of letting you know that they want to talk. It is normal for your child, and you, to feel more irritable and anxious right now.
It’s also normal for them to need more reassurance and affection. If your child has questions, answer factually, but try to keep the focus on all the things that are being done to keep people healthy.
Most importantly make yourself available to listen and to talk.
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CONNECT WITH OTHERS VIRTUALLY
Make an effort to call or video chat with loved ones to see how they are doing. You’d be surprised how long cousins can talk during times like this and how close they quickly become.
Reach out to parents of your child’s classmates or friends. You may be able to set up a virtual playdate or chat with friends, depending on your child’s age.
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SUPPORTING CHILDREN DURING THE CORONAVIRUS (COVID-19) OUTBREAK
Keep this list handy of ways to help your children cope with these changes.
- Stay in a routine.
- Read books aloud to your children.
- Get some exercise and spend time outside.
- Spend time together as a family.
- Assign your children some chores.
- Be kind to each other and yourself.
- Make time for PLAY!
- Connect with others virtually.
What tips do you want to share that are helping your child cope with changes during this time? Share in the comments below!
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